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How to Groom a Dog – The Secret Starts with Composure

June 18, 2025

When most people think of how to groom a dog, they imagine sudsy baths, shiny coats, and trimmed nails. But here’s the truth: grooming success doesn’t start with shampoo—it starts with composure training. If your dog can’t hold still, hates being touched, or panics at the sound of clippers, even basic grooming turns into a […]

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When most people think of how to groom a dog, they imagine sudsy baths, shiny coats, and trimmed nails. But here’s the truth: grooming success doesn’t start with shampoo—it starts with composure training. If your dog can’t hold still, hates being touched, or panics at the sound of clippers, even basic grooming turns into a stressful chore—for both of you.

At Cornerstone Dog Training, we believe composure training is one of the most overlooked pieces of the grooming puzzle. And if you’ve ever wrestled your dog into the bathtub or given up on nail trims altogether, you’re not alone. But there is a better way.

What is Composure Training?

Composure training teaches your puppy or dog how to stay calm when faced with something new, uncomfortable, or overstimulating—like the sound of clippers, the feel of water, or being held still. It’s a form of socialization that helps your dog handle real-life challenges with calm confidence.

Think of it this way: how to groom a dog isn’t just about tools and techniques—it’s about preparing your dog mentally to tolerate and eventually enjoy the grooming process.

Why Composure Matters for Grooming

From the very beginning, we work with puppies to get them used to being touched on their paws, ears, belly, and muzzle. In our Puppy Training Secrets program, we call this “composure with touch.” Here’s the key: you’re not just touching your puppy randomly. You’re training them to stay still and calm—and rewarding that calm with food or praise.

For example, when teaching a puppy to tolerate paw handling for nail trims:

  • Gently hold their paw
  • Wait for them to relax (even for a split second)
  • Mark that calm behavior with “Yes!” and a reward

Over time, this builds a foundation for calm grooming behavior. And it’s not just about the paws—this applies to brushing, bathing, and even visiting the groomer.

Practical Composure Games for Grooming

To help your pup succeed at grooming, here are a few key composure-building exercises we teach in our program:

  • Composure with sound: Practice while a vacuum runs or use an electric toothbrush to simulate clippers.
  • Composure with surfaces: Introduce different textures like slick floors or metal tubs.
  • Composure with touch: Gradually desensitize paws, ears, and tails to being handled.

Each session helps your dog stay composed—and when they’re composed, grooming gets so much easier.

Why This Is the Answer to “How to Groom a Dog”

Many pet parents struggle because their dog views grooming as a battle. But when your dog learns to stay calm in the face of pressure—grooming becomes less about control and more about trust.

So if you’re asking how to groom a dog, our answer is simple: start with composure training. Build the habit of calmness now, and grooming becomes just another normal part of life—not a fight.


Not sure where to start?

We’ve got three step-by-step training courses designed to walk you through this transformation:

  1. Cornerstone Puppy Program lays the foundation from day one
  2. Chaos to Calm – for dogs 5 months old +
  3. Crate and Potty Training Challenge – for new puppies and any dog that struggles with crate and/or potty training.

Still not sure where to begin? We’d love to help. Book a free call with one of our trainers and let’s create a calm grooming game plan together.

-Happy Training!


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